Seasoned parents always tell us new parents that later on we will miss these days when our children are young. At these moments I want to laugh and say, "uh, yeah right!?!" Endless diapers, whining, and "NO!". Constant dependence on me. It is tiring.
But.
Then there are moments like these:
-Ella carries her bear over to me, backs up towards me, and sits on my lap cuddling her bear and bouncing her feet.
-Kaylee crawls up on to my lap, wraps her arms around me, lays her head on my chest, and simply holds me.
-Ella starts giggling like crazy about nothing.
-Kaylee sings about what she is playing with.
-Ella spins around in circles.
-Kaylee gives Ella hugs and kisses for no reason.
-Ella smiles at me when I look at her.
-Kaylee wakes up afraid and needs me.
-Ella wants me to cuddle with her.
-Kaylee wants to help me cook.
-Ella signs "please" when she wants to sit on the couch with me.
-Kaylee wants me to paint her nails.
-They dance together.
-Ella gives me a big hug and kiss.
-Kaylee wants me to hold her hand in the van.
-Ella holding her hand out to me because she doesn't like that it is dirty.
-Kaylee making faces back and forth with me.
-They laugh and laugh for long periods of time.
These are the moment's that make me say, "Oh yes. I know. I will definitely miss these days." These are the moments that I cherish and know that they will be gone in a blink on an eye. With every stage, I am sure there are moments like these. Special moments that one day I will miss as a parent and other moments that I will be glad are over. In the mean time, I will savor the good things in this stage and enjoy them while I can. Because some day I will miss them.
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